Ideas for Honoring the Day:

 

There are many ways to make the day memorable and meaningful.  Whether our activities take place on March 25th or as near as practicable, we can always point out the gestational interval leading up to Christmas.  On the Annunciation feast, we can focus on Christ’s joyfully announced Incarnation or the application of its pro-life import--or better still we can combine the two.  But note that as a pro-life observance, the Day of the Unborn Child is different from other pro-life memorials in that it is founded deep in history upon the wondrous and joyous event of the Incarnation, and this should be reflected in our approach--for the feast of Christ’s conception is truly a celebration of the profound mystery of life.  This page offers a great range of ideas for keeping the day special and keeping its meaning in our minds and hearts.  There is something for almost everyone.  Choose one, and establish it as a yearly tradition, or try something new each year. 

General:  (All ages--public/private, groups/individuals)  

   *  Spiritual Adoption (9 months of prayer for an unborn child from Mar. 25 to Dec. 25)

   *  Highlighting The Christmas Connection

   *  Carnations for the Incarnation (suggestions on using this symbol to celebrate the day)

Private Observance:

   *  For Children

   *  For Teens

   *  For Adults and Families

Public Observance:  (Also check our Past Events Archive for ideas from previous years)

   *  Clergy/Church/School

   *  Pro-life Groups

   *  Individuals

See Also:

   *  Events--Current (attend a March 25th event in your area)

   *  Worship Resources (for church and prayer centered celebrations)

   *  An Ecumenical Celebration (traditions, ideas for sermons--various denominations)

   *  American Life League's Annunciation Web Page (including suggestions for home, school, and church based activities)

 

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General (All ages--groups and individuals)

Spiritual Adoption (9 months of prayer for an unborn child):

Spiritual Adoption Basics:

 

Spiritual Adoption is a particularly poignant way to honor the feast of Christ’s conception.  Basically it consists of a symbolically gestational nine months of prayer for an unborn child in danger of abortion.  We can participate as individuals and families, or more formally in prayer groups and congregations.  A church-based program often begins with participants filling out prayer-pledge slips and culminates in a Christmastime parish "baby shower" offering light refreshments and collecting monetary donations and needs-list items for a local pro-life pregnancy center--an approach that beautifully incorporates both the spiritual and corporal works of mercy.  Beginning Spiritual Adoption on the Annunciation and ending in a Christmas-season baby shower has the added benefits of reinforcing the pro-life aspect of the feast and its theological significance as the commemoration of Christ's conception, as well as highlighting the oft-unrecognized pregnancy-length interval between these two Incarnational feasts.  Both aspects can be opportunely reinforced during the holidays, particularly at the closing gift shower, to which the whole parish is invited.  Another advantage of Spiritual Adoption is that unlike one-day Annunciation celebrations, those who missed the feast day opening of the program can still join in this symbolic period of prayer--for example, if they begin in the first three months of the program they can start by praying for the safety of a child in the first trimester, and change their specific prayer intention for that child every 25th of the month until Christmas.

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Popular Approaches to Spiritual Adoption:

 

When done for the feast of the Annunciation, the start date is on or near March 25th (or the day to which the feast is moved)--to maximize participation it is often begun on the Sunday nearest or before the date.  Pledge slips can be left in pews, in baskets with pencils near entrances, or included in the bulletin.  The concept of "Spiritual Adoption" and the nine months to Christmas can be explained in the sermon/homily with an invitation to the congregation to fill out pledge slips and drop them in the collection or a box at the back of the church.  The slips can list frequency options--for example:  the Lord’s Prayer daily, prayer meeting weekly, or attending an additional church service each month.  Participants can choose to pray for a boy, girl, handicapped child, etc.--or leave the selection up to God.  A brief pro-life prayer can be used or written for the occasion.  Roman Catholic churches often use Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen's original spiritual adoption prayer.  Many pro-life organizations such as Students for Life recommend the program and there are various resources on the web, for example, a Spiritual Adoption Poster and free print materials at spiritualadoption.org including a selection of Spiritual Adoption Prayer Cards (for which a donation is appreciated but not required).  Particularly helpful is the Spiritual Adoption webpage of The Catholic Diocese of Arlington Virginia which has links to downloadable files including printable pledge card slips featuring Archbishop Sheen’s prayer--or, for slips specific to the Feast of the Annunciation start date see our downloadable slips below.  The Annunciation Church/School Program launched in the Catholic Diocese of Peoria in 2006 focuses on Spiritual Adoption and has been requested and successfully implemented in churches and schools of various denominations throughout the country.  Also visit the 2006 section of the Past Events Archive to read the text used to promote the program in Chicago that year at St. Hyacinth Basilica.    

 

One popular Catholic approach of selecting the Annunciation feast date to start a "novena" of monthly pro-life Masses can easily be combined with and complement a Spiritual Adoption program--both reinforce the nine-month interval before Christmas, and each Mass can be offered for a specific monthly intention concerning the physical, spiritual, and familial welfare of the "adopted" children such as those suggested below for church bulletins.  If the novena is for an entire diocese, a church named for the Annunciation or Incarnation can be chosen if centrally located.

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Bulletin Reminders/Inserts:

 

Church bulletins can announce the program in advance, explain the reason for starting on the Annunciation, and include monthly reminders with a Spiritual Adoption prayer plus an additional optional intention for each of the nine months. 

 

(Sample bulletin text):  Please join in our Spiritual Adoption program and pledge to pray regularly for the safety of an abortion-threatened unborn child during the nine months from the Annunciation feast to Christmas.  Pledge slips will be available on _______ at _______.  We begin on the Incarnational feast of the Annunciation because it commemorates Christ's conception and is increasingly honored as "The Day of the Unborn Child."  At the end of the gestational nine-month period, a closing Christmastime "baby shower" will be held collecting donations for a local pro-life pregnancy center.  Spiritual Adoption intention for month one: ____________.

 

(Examples of nine specific monthly intentions added to the general intention):  (1) healthy development for the child, (2) an uncomplicated pregnancy and delivery for the mother, (3) a pro-life physician to care for them both, (4) that the father encourage and facilitate this life-affirming choice, and be willing to act as a responsible provider, (5) for both parents’ emotional welfare and maturation toward making good decisions for their child, (6) that they be guided by the Holy Spirit in considering adoption, (7) for wise counsel from clergy, and encouragement from friends, relatives, and especially grandparents who will recognize the child as a new member of the family, (8) that the child once born will continue to be safe from harm and raised in a moral faith-filled environment, (9) for the eternal salvation of the child and family.

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The Christmas Baby Shower:

 

Essentially this is a baby-themed parish get-together with refreshments in which there will be a donation bin to collect new items and a slotted box for monetary donations to benefit a local pro-life pregnancy center.  All are invited, but if desired, special “Thank You” invitations can be sent to those who filled out pledge slips.  The oft-overlooked "Twelve Days of Christmas" after the holiday rush is a perfect time in which to have the shower reminding us that traditionally the season really begins rather than ends with December 25th.  Epiphany at the end of the twelve days is also a good choice since the baby gifts can remind us of the gifts Christ received from the Magi--the popular Annunciation Church/School Program has the closing party on Epiphany to collect “baby presents for Jesus.”  Whether held before or after December 25th, the shower should be announced well in advance and indicate what items are needed and how checks should be made out.  The pro-life pregnancy center should be contacted early on for their needs-list for new items and whether or not gently used baby clothing is also accepted--this info should also be prominently posted in the church and/or bulletin in the weeks before the shower.  At the shower, signs, banners, and/or an info table should remind parishioners that the Spiritual Adoption program began nine months earlier on the Annunciation Feast of Christ’s conception to reinforce the relationship between the feasts--this is especially important for those who will come to donate for the shower but did not participate in Spiritual Adoption.  Hint:  Pastel blue and pink frosted cut-out cookies are attractive additions to the refreshments table.  Try using these two pastel colors on Christmas shaped cookies to combine the shower and holiday themes.  Use large cutters to add the dates "Mar. 25 - Dec. 25" with a writing-tip icing tube--larger angel cutters are ideal as the theme covers both the Annunciation and Nativity feasts.  Baby-themed cut-outs can also be used--for ex.:  baby bottle, baby carriage, or three piece set (bottle, teddy bear, rocking horse).

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Downloadable Files for Printable Pledge Slips and Sample:

 

For printable pledge slips specific to the Annunciation Feast start date, right-click to download the MS Word file for Annunciation Spiritual Adoption Pledge Slips.  (Some sites recommend printing the slips on pink and blue paper.)  They can be modified or you can create your own--a sample appears below.  The 2-part slips should include the info on the nine month pregnancy interval between the two feasts and should also mention the "baby shower" that will be held at the end near Christmas.

 

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   Feast of the Annunciation Spiritual Adoption Pledge                 SPIRITUAL

    Honoring the Incarnational and Pro-Life Meaning of the Feast of                   ADOPTION

      Christ’s Conception Celebrated Nine Months Before Christmas

                                                                                                                                                Name:

I will pray regularly for an endangered unborn child for 9 months--from the

feast date (also designated the Day Of The Unborn Child) until Christmas. 

                                                                                                                                                Address:

Please circle the level of frequency (suggestions in parentheses):

 

Daily (Spiritual Adoption prayer, Our Father, Memorare)   

 

Weekly (Rosary, Chaplet, prayer meeting)

                                                                                                                                                E-mail:

Monthly (Eucharistic Adoration, additional Mass or worship service)

 

The nine months of prayer will end with a Christmas season “baby shower” to collect

donations for a local pro-life pregnancy center--details will be printed in the bulletin.

 

(KEEP THIS PORTION AND POST IN A PROMINENT PLACE AS A REMINDER)                                   (DETACH & SUBMIT)

 

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Highlighting the Christmas Connection:

The Importance of the Annunciation/Christmas Connection:

 

There are several key reasons why the December 25th celebration of the Incarnate Word as revealed at His birth is an ideal time to renew our historical acquaintance with the March 25th feast of Christ’s conception.  First of all, Christmas is naturally linked to the Annunciation, not only as another important Incarnational feast, but also because it marks the end of the gestational interval separating them.  Furthermore, Christmas is a mainstream cultural and religious holiday widely celebrated across nations and denominations.  Despite all attempts at secularization, the Christmas season is still the time of year when there is general openness to or at least expectation of encountering religious and specifically Christian themes as well as pro-child birth images in the culture--in public displays, store merchandise, decorations on homes and businesses, postal stamps, music on the radio, and media coverage of local celebrations.  Finally, it is the time of year when we have contact with friends and relatives whom we rarely see, and when churches and congregations welcome members or visitors who may only attend services once a year.  The combination of these factors makes it essential to take the opportunity to introduce the Annunciation and its meaning into our Christmas season communications, gifts and celebrations.

Weaving the Annunciation into Christmas Traditions:

 

The suggestions below include ideas on introducing a few facts about the Annunciation into Christmas season e-mail, postal mailings, customized Christmas cards, personalized gift ornaments, homemade gift tags, pocket calendars, and church services.  Though some are specific to families or children, others can also be put into practice by churches/organizations--the approach differing mainly in scale and formality.  However, clergy, retreat masters, and others who have a public forum during the Christmas season have unique opportunities, and these will be addressed at the end of the listing.  (Clergy and ministry/dept. heads should also see the Spiritual Adoption section for a very practical way to introduce and maintain the Annunciation/Christmas connection.)  

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Electronic Mailings/Communications:

 

Perhaps the easiest way to spread the word about the Annunciation is to change or add a special e-mail “signature” for all your outgoing e-mails at the start of the December holiday season (you can also use it in March):  Your usual closing and name and as much information about the feasts as you like, for ex.--“A Blessed Annunciation (Mar. 25) + 9 months = A Merry Christmas (Dec. 25)” or a few lines about the history of the feast, that it was once named for the Incarnation, that the feast of Christ’s conception once began the New Year, and its relationship to Christmas, etc.

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Seals/Stickers for Envelopes/Packages:

 

Address labels can be personalized with any text you choose, and they make attractive additions to Christmas cards and can be used as envelope seals on the outside of all your holiday season mailings.  One way is to make them at home with computer inkjet/laser printer labels and a word processing or home publishing program; this will give you control over the font and design, and your local office supply store will have a variety of shapes and styles for you to choose.  However, an easier way is to design and purchase them on-line--many Internet stationery stores allow you to type your own text into the name and address lines on the screen.  Choose styles that allow 25 or more characters and at least 3 lines.  Note:  Depending on the style and text you choose, the labels can also be used on March mailings leading up to the Annunciation.  Some examples with suggested text are below:

 

Text-Only Labels:

 

Suitable for both feasts are the small Miles Kimball labels (silver, gold, or white) that have a generous text allowance--maximum of 5 lines of 35 characters/spaces.  This is enough for two or three mini sentences or a few separate title lines.  Type in the personalization after selecting quantity.  Note for this style, limiting yourself to four lines will give you slightly larger text:

 

4-line example for both Christmas & Annunciation, 35-or-fewer characters per line:

A Blessed Annunciation Day--Mar. 25

+ 9 Months

= A Merry Christmas--Dec. 25

Celebrate the Incarnational Feasts

 

Decorative Labels:

 

If you prefer a more decorative label with a graphic, Colorful Images offers many holiday themes including the larger square shaped style.  Most have a 4 line 26-character-each limit.  To order just click on a design below and type the text of your choice into the name and address boxes after adding the label to your cart.

 

Graphics that cover both Annunciation/Christmas include the 4-line 26 character golden bow/bells, blue singing angel, & the 3-line die-cut shaped musical angels.

 

Traditional Christmas decorative labels include the 4-line 26-character evergreen border, poinsettia/candles, golden bow/pine-cone,  holly/poinsettias variety, & poinsettias variety.  Outdoor/nature Christmas themes include the Xmas wreath/cardinals, winter scene with cardinals, welcoming home at Christmas, sleigh & child with Xmas tree.

 

Religious Christmas graphic labels include the 4-line 26-character Bethlehem, Madonna and child, baby Jesus close-up, and the 3-line stained-glass Holy Family.

 

Even the 3-line 26-character labels can accommodate:

Annunciation Day--Mar. 25

+ Nine Months =

A Merry Christmas--Dec. 25

Or 4-line example:

Annunciation Day--Mar. 25

& Christmas--Dec. 25

Are Exactly 9 Mos. Apart

[A 4th line might include:  The Length of a Pregnancy or Honoring the Incarnation]

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Design Your Own Christmas Cards, Postcard Calendar Magnets, or Calendar Cards with text on the Christmas/Annunciation connection:

 

Vistaprint allows you to design your own cards with the images and text you choose without purchasing a large quantity.  You can design your own from scratch using their stock of images, or use their templates.  They have many Christmas themes and products that can easily accommodate the text examples for the Christmas/Annunciation labels given above--for example:

 

Customized Holiday Folded Cards (10 for $6.49) are available in general Christmas themes or religious themes.

 

4 x 8 Holiday Cards (can include a photo you upload).

 

Holiday Calendar Cards (this tent style card that includes a year calendar can serve as a reminder of the feast for the coming year--the card calendars and magnet style below are ideal to point out the relationship between the feasts--so be sure to add text on the 9-months interval plus the fact that the March 25 Annunciation was New Year’s Day in the pre-Gregorian calendar).

 

Mailable Calendar Magnet Postcards (10 for $12.99.  These too have the advantage of being year-long reminders--use the same text ideas as for the Holiday Calendar Cards above).

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Give Customized Tree Ornaments as Gifts (with text on the Annunciation and Christmas):

 

A Christmas tree ornament has the advantage of being brought out every year as a reminder of the feast days, and if reasonably durable can be handed down as a keepsake.  Some tree ornaments can be homemade using the image/text ideas below and those found under the gift tag and envelope seal sections.  However, modern technology allows you to add your own text on-line to professionally made wood and metal ornaments that can be given/mailed as gifts.  Some of the metal and fabric ornaments described below are sufficiently flat and lightweight to be inserted in Christmas cards.

 

Small to Large Quantity Personalized Wood Ornaments:

 

LazerDesigns offers several styles of wood ornaments that you can personalize with your own text.  They are laser cut and engraved with your message and each comes in a gift box with string to hang--production time is 5-10 business days, and any quantity can be ordered from one on up--the greater the quantity, the lower the price per ornament:

 

Most appropriate is the angel design which covers both feasts and allows 4-lines of 25-characters each--you simply click the button to personalize and enter your desired text in the line boxes.  The star bulb design also allows four 25-character lines, but the 4th must be entered in the “special instructions” box.  

 

Here are some text suggestions for 25 character lines--either the first 4 or the last four lines would make good use of the text limit:

The Incarnational Feasts

Annunciation Day--Mar. 25

& Christmas--Dec. 25

Are Exactly 9 Mos. Apart

Celebrate the Incarnation

 

There is also a star design with 4 lines of only 20 characters each.  The candle has this same limit, but the 4th line must be entered in the special instructions box.

 

Here is a text suggestion for 20 character lines:

Blessed Annunciation [or] Annunciation Day

+ 9 Months =

A Merry Christmas

March 25~December 25

 

Large Quantity Ornaments (Wood, Fabric, Metal):

 

Individuals and organizations needing larger quantities of customized ornaments have additional options at iaspromotes.com (most styles have a 50 quantity minimum).  Their wood ornaments come in tree, star, bell, and snowflake shapes.  They offer fabric ornaments in various Christmas designs (star, tree, etc.).  A particularly attractive design in the metal ornaments category is the Gloria Duchin gold nativity.  Organizations that need high quantity (250 and up) mailable metal ornaments should consider the 2, 3, or 4 inch Avaline brass thin enough to fit in a card.

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Homemade Gift Tags (children/young teens):

 

Annunciation/Christmas theme gift tags are a good craft for children who can either draw/color the pictures or cut them out of catalogs/magazines--sticker machines are helpful for a mini collage.  (Older children and teens can do these on a computer with clip art.) 

 

You will need card stock or heavyweight paper and a hole punch and string for the corner.  Simply cut a long rectangle twice as long as the finished gift tag should be, and fold in half.   For example, a standard 8 1/2 x 11 sheet will produce 6 tags large enough for a small drawing or collage--cut the sheet in two 5 1/2  x 8 1/2  halves, then cut each half into thirds 5 1/2 x a little over 2 3/4. 

 

Then fold strips in half--tags will be squarish in shape.  With the fold at the left, punch a hole in the upper left corner. 

 

On front of tag, write or paste a cut-out “Merry Christmas” at the top, and then “from:” below that, and “to:” near the bottom--leaving space to fill in names later. 

 

Open tag (there will be two panels).  On the left side write at top:  “Annunciation Day” or “Feast of the Annunciation”, and on the right side across from it write “Christmas” or “Feast of the Nativity.”  (“Feast of the Nativity” is a much older name for Christmas).  Then near top under the feast names write “Mar. 25” on the left, and “Dec. 25” on the right, across from each other--then in the middle between the two dates write “+ 9 months =” or “plus 9 months equals” (this should be written across the fold).

 

Then draw or paste small pictures of the Annunciation on the left (Mary with angel, Mary with halo around her womb, rays of light coming from dove down to Mary), and of the birth of Jesus on the right (manger, holy family, star, sheep).  When done children should sign their tag on the back after “made by” and add the year. 

 

Then close tag and feed decorative string through both holes in corner and tie with a double knot so that loop is at least 4 1/2 inches long (long enough to attach to gift bags by wrapping the string around handles and feeding card through loop and pulling tight).

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Mini Gift Calendars Personalized With Info on the Annunciation:

 

In each Christmas card you send, insert a customized wallet or desk size calendar for the coming year.  As noted in the section on Calendar Christmas Cards/Postcards, a calendar that will be kept through the coming year is ideal not only as a continual reminder, but the calendar theme lends itself to info on the feast dates, the nine month interval, and the fact that the Annunciation was New Year’s Day in the pre-Gregorian calendar (until the 1700s in England).  Any or all of this information can be included on a small calendar.  You can have them professionally printed, download ours (coming in November), or make them yourself, as explained below:

 

Professional Printing:

 

For larger quantities (usually 50 and up) you can have standard business card stock professionally printed with any text you desire on the front and the calendar on the back, but a more durable option is the plastic wallet size calendars available in two calendar formats that offer several lines of text--enough for info on the feast days and a personalized holiday greeting with your name--you can choose the calendar style under format options (B and C).

 

Download Our Pocket-Size Calendars:

 

Smaller quantities will be best in most cases, as calendars are only good for the current year.  You can download our credit-card sized cards--next year’s calendar will be available here in November in time for Christmas mailings.  Note:  They can be printed one-sided, and you can sign the back with a personal greeting to each recipient; or, you can print the optional back sheet that allows you to add your own text by double clicking the image--there is a text box in edit mode (between the carnations) that you can personalize with your name, recipient's name, year, etc.--remember to save your changes and close the picture after editing.  Print in color on best quality setting and try several paper types to see what works best with your printer (photo paper, smooth cardstock/greeting card paper, or heavyweight graphics/imaging paper).  Click the links for our pocket calendars from last year and the optional back (you can still use these in March if you send Annunciation Cards).

 

Make Your Own:

 

If you want to include Annunciation/Christmas theme calendars in Christmas mailings every year it might be worthwhile to learn to make your own--many home publishing programs have calendar options--the graphic options for calendars are linked to programs that calculate the days for whatever year you enter.  Your program may give you the option to choose a small calendar (pocket or desk size), which would be the best option.  Once you have the calendar formatted the way you want (adding your text at top and bottom, font changes, etc.) you can copy it as an image.  First you may have to click and drag around the whole calendar to group the months and titles as one image (a single red border around them all shows they have been grouped), and right click to copy.  Then tile it across a blank document in your home publishing or word processing program to print out several per sheet, on smooth card stock, greeting card, or photo paper.  You can sign the backs with a personal greeting.  A standard sheet can easily accommodate 8 credit card size calendars in two columns of four.  Or for a tent style desktop size calendar you would divide a standard size document into four sections from the top down--a sized-to-fit calendar can be copied into the 2nd section and the 4th at the bottom; then print and cut the sheet in half crosswise, cut off the blank edges, fold each in half and you have two stand-up calendars.  However you size and print the copied calendar, remember to keep the original calendar (original size but with your additions) as a home publishing file that is still linked to the calendar program--then you can just update it every year by entering new dates (to change the date in the saved file, some require you to enter the new year separately for each month).

 

Note:  If your home publishing program has no templates for small calendars that will fit in a Christmas card, those who are experienced with formatting and graphics can reformat and modify a basic single sheet one-year calendar.  Instructions vary depending on the programs you use, but the following are based on older versions of MS Home Publishing and Word:  In your home publishing program search for calendar templates and choose a landscape layout calendar with four columns and three rows for the twelve months.  Enter your year so the program will recalculate the days.  Change the letter/numbers font to a narrow but easy to read style such as Abadi MT Condensed bold or Arial Narrow bold.  If each month has to be formatted separately, the easiest way to make major changes is to change one month to the format you like--rich click and choose “change calendar” for font changes and to center alignments, right click and choose “more options” to change border, gridlines, etc.  Then right click the calendar for that month, choose “more options” and “duplicate”--do this until you have 12 of the correct format, and do the same with the text boxes for the names of the months, and then click and drag to arrange them and eliminate wasted space between months.  Change the text boxes to the correct months--to save space you can put the year in each month title rather than the top of the calendar.  Then right click on each of the 12 calendars and choose “change calendar” and then enter the correct start date for that month--it should have a box for month and year--change the start date and it will recalculate the days.  Repeat for rest of months and check start and end days of each month against a professional calendar such as the one on your computer.  You can then add a shape to circle the dates of Mar. 25 and Dec. 25 (from “main options” choose “add something” then “shape or line” then “shape”--the donut or round shapes are best) and drag and size it to circle Mar. 25, then right click it to change shape color to red, then copy the shape, and paste and drag it over Dec. 25.  Use a long thin text box the length of the calendar at the top and bottom for your text (use Christmas colors if you choose)--for ex.: “A Blessed Annunciation + 9 months = A Merry Christmas“ for the top, and “The Mar. 25 Annunciation Feast was the pre-Gregorian-calendar New Year’s Day” for the bottom.  When you like the way it looks, make sure you save this file in the home publishing program after formatting so it retains the calendar programming allowing you to change the date next year (also remember to save it in the original large size to maintain clarity and allow different sizing options next year).  Then click and drag around all the images that make up your calendar to group them as one image (usually one red border around them all will show the images have been grouped)--then right click to copy, and paste the full size calendar (to preserve clarity) into a blank document in the home publishing or word processing program (it is best to reduce the margins of this new document to maximize the number of calendars printed per sheet).  It should now be an image that you can reduce and shrink to the desired size (simply select image and drag a corner).  Then you can click to select and then right click to copy and paste as many as can fit on a page.  Moving by dragging is easier in a home publishing program; if you use a word processing program for print out, for wallet-size calendars try choosing the columns option (select two) for more even spacing to make cutting them out easier.  Print in best quality and experiment with paper types--try smooth finish cardstock, photo paper, or heavyweight graphics/imaging paper.  When cut out you can sign the back with a personal Christmas greeting.

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Clergy and the Christmas Connection (see also Spiritual Adoption):

 

The most natural way to introduce the Annunciation as the occasion of Christ’s Incarnation and conception is in a Christmas Eve or Christmas Day sermon/homily, which reaches the greatest number of people because of increased attendance.  But any Sunday during the holiday season is a good time to touch upon the history of the Annunciation feast date and its relationship to Dec. 25th.  Those who want to comment on the pro-life import of Christ’s Incarnation can point out that the contemporary observance of the “Day of the Unborn Child “ takes place exactly nine months before Christmas on the traditional day commemorating Christ’s conception--March 25th.  It needn’t be the focus of the whole sermon--just a brief comment to address the subject takes only a few moments.  Additionally, the large public space available in a church can be utilized with a banner conveying a simple message such as:  “A Blessed Annunciation + 9 Months = A Merry Christmas” and/or “Celebrate the Incarnational Feasts--March 25th & December 25th--Exactly Nine Months Apart".  Any one of these approaches can make an important contribution toward fostering not only our reverence for life but our understanding of Christology and the Incarnation--for this single reference in church on Christmas may be the only time Christ’s conception is brought to the attention of the congregation, especially those who come only once a year.

 

[Note:  Catholic clergy in particular have an additional opportunity during the Christmas season to mention another pregnancy-length interval between a conception and birth feast.  As with Christ's conception and birth, the feast of Mary's conception on December 8 is set nine months before her birth feast on September 8.  The consistency in the symbolic spacing of these two pairs of dates is something that can be brought out in the homilies for each of the four feast days.  There is yet another advantage to explaining the March 25th Annunciation on the feast of Mary’s Immaculate Conception and visa-versa--pointing out that there is a specific feast for Christ’s conception (logically set nine months before Christmas) clarifies the fact that the December 8 Immaculate Conception commemorates the day Mary was conceived--many people confuse the Immaculate Conception of Mary with the virginal conception of Christ.  Confusion is apt to occur because the absence of biblical references to Mary’s parents necessitates the reading of the Annunciation passages concerning Christ’s conception on the feast of Mary’s Immaculate Conception, and there is also the less frequent but additional complication of some denominations’ use of the term “Immaculate Conception” to refer to Christ’s conception.  Clearly we can be using the same language but meaning something entirely different.  Each of these gestationally spaced feast dates is a welcome opportunity to set the record straight, and if we are directed to keep the nine month interval in mind, it is easy to understand which conception feast is for Christ and which is for Mary--because we all understand Christmas as commemorating Christ’s birth.]

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Carnations for the Incarnation:

The Need for A Symbol:

 

The all-important moment of Incarnation--the central theme of Christianity--is often left out of depictions and discussions of the Annunciation, because it takes place hidden in the womb of the Virgin Mary on a scale too small to be seen.  Even eyewitnesses standing by at the Annunciation could not say they saw the Word become Flesh, and artists who try to represent this real event by painting a window on the womb can only effectively show a later stage of prenatal development, not the microscopic level of conception.  It is easy to visualize the angel and Mary or a dove floating above representing the Holy Spirit, but the embryonic Christ concealed in the womb of the virgin is a challenge for our imagination; it is a challenge even to imagine friends, family, and other ordinary human beings at this prenatal stage of life--how much more challenging to imagine God as that tiny embryo.  “Out of sight--out of mind” is often equally true of the mind’s eye, especially when the pivotal fact of Christ’s conception can be overshadowed by beautiful mental images of the archangel Gabriel we can so much more easily visualize.  For this reason there is a need for an abstract symbol not native to the oft-portrayed scene, but clearly referencing that most momentous event there taking place.

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The Flower as Symbol:

 

The beauty and fragrance of flowers and their varied types make them natural symbols.  From the time of the ancient Greeks through the Victorian era, flowers have been used as a symbolic language or “florigraphy.”  Holidays (or holy days) and observances often have specific flowers associated with them.  Christmas has the poinsettia, Easter has the lily, and pro-life Roe v. Wade memorials use the rose, but a visually appealing symbol is particularly important when illuminating an unseen mystery.  In this case, it is the unique and unparalleled moment of Incarnation--the conception of Jesus--which, paradoxically, takes place in the material world but cannot be seen by man and remains hidden for nine months.  The carnation is a much-needed and welcome symbol that in its very name focuses the mind on what happened on that awe inspiring occasion. 

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Carnations for the Incarnation:

 

The literal translation of “carnation” is a “flesh-colored” flower--making it an appropriate symbol for the enfleshment of the eternal Word even if it were not a near sound-alike for the theological term.  Dianthus, its aptly named genus, means "divine flower" or “flowers of god.”  But one needn’t know any facts about the flower to make the connection with “Incarnation”--these nearly homonymous words were once synonymous for a rosy hue--and the association between the two comes quite naturally.  In fact, when the U.S. Postal Service revealed the name of the artwork featured on the 2007 Christmas Stamp--Bernardino Luini’s "Madonna of the Carnation"--some assumed it was a printer's error that left off the "In" (the cropped image on the stamp made it hard to recognize the small flower in the hand of the infant Christ).  Art aficionados may have recognized the work as one of several identically titled paintings by famous artists like Da Vinci and Dürer depicting Mary and the baby Jesus holding the beautiful blossoms.  In the past, carnations have had various meanings, including maternal love, and the points or “pinks” of the petals were used as symbols of Christ's Passion--the carnation therefore also has the advantage of representing Christ’s entire earthly life from virginal conception to his redemptive death.  Moreover, once established as a well-known symbol, this common florist-flower seen year-round can serve as a frequent reminder of Christ's incomparable gift of Himself in the flesh.

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General Suggestions on Using Carnations:

 

Carnations present us with many lovely ways to make a poignant memory on the feast day--in the form of a thoughtful gift, beautiful bouquets in church, a single bloom on the dinner table, or worn as a boutonniere by both men and women.  They come in a wide variety of colors, from the plain white you find at the florist to the Black King carnation with petals so darkly red they appear velvety black.  As symbols of the Incarnation, keeping in mind the meaning of the words, flesh-toned carnations (rose, pink, and peach pastels are the most common) are preferable to the more bright purples, red/orange, and striped varieties.  Click to read more about our downloadable “Carnations for the Incarnation” paper ribbons, which can be attached to the stems to highlight the symbolism.  For an emphasis on the pro-life aspect of the day, use the smaller baby carnations, or a mix of pink carnations and white dyed blue (click for instructions).  Artificial carnations are especially useful for crafts--they may be easier to find and far more affordable at dollar and discount stores than craft/party specialty stores.  See the suggestions below for specifics on using the carnation theme in particular Annunciation feast activities and settings, including the church, parish, and school; ideas for the home; organizations or families hosting a dinner/party/tea/event; baked-goods and candy; gifts and party favors; crafts for adults and children, and cards/invitations, envelopes and seals.

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Carnations in Church, Parish, & School-Based Activities:

Bouquets and Arrangements in Church:

Flowers have long been used in church as examples of the beauty of God’s living creation.  Use carnations prominently in church on the feast day or on the Sunday before or nearest the feast, with clear mention of the symbolism and the day’s significance. 

 

Flowers in Processions: 

For example--on the feast day, have a first communion class enter church in procession holding carnations. 

 

“Incarnation Celebrations” (use the carnation as a symbol in promotional materials):

Annunciation events that focus on the Incarnational reality of Christ’s conception are sometimes called “Incarnation Celebrations”--carnation graphics can be used in fliers, signs, and bulletin inserts promoting the events.

 

Carnation Sale Fundraisers:

Celebrate the feast by having a carnation sale fundraiser with a portion of the proceeds benefiting a local pro-life pregnancy center.  Fundraising carnation sales for churches and charities are often promoted as Carnation Day, but the practice can easily be applied to the celebration of Incarnation Day to reinforce the meaning of the feast and raise money for a worthy life-affirming cause.  Click here for general info on having a carnation sale and also see the suggestions on Mother's Day flower sales that can apply to Annunciation carnation sales.  Contact your local nursery or florist for flowers, and offer to place their name on the order forms in return for a discount.  Promotion of the sale should stress the carnations are being sold for the Annunciation feast of Christ’s Incarnation with proceeds going to a pro-life pregnancy center in memory of that moment of His conception--download a promotional sign with this info and carnation graphics (standard size sheet--print best quality color in landscape).

 

Carnation Seeds  (for distribution at church/school, or given as gifts):

Though they lack the visual appeal of the flower, carnation seeds are the ideal symbol of the Incarnational conception of Christ--a seed represents new life, and the blessing of seeds is an old Annunciation Day tradition.  Their small size brings to mind the embryo--the tiny plant embryo hidden within the seed coat as the newly conceived Christ was hidden in Mary’s womb.  Our downloadable "Carnations for the Incarnation" color sheet (with the feast name, date, etc.) can be cut and folded into four mini seed packets, or into paper ribbons to staple to clear bags/packets if desired--see instructions below.  A standard carnation seed packet from a nursery or home store is enough for 10 or more mini packs--a small pinch a pack.  For larger distribution, bulk carnation seeds can be purchased on-line in a multi-color mix (various quantities--1/16 oz. to 1 lb.) or, for a more select color variety go to seedcentre.com for a pink/red/white mix and click on their Perennial Catalog link for current prices and then follow the instructions on their web site.

Instructions for Making Seed Packets:

Download and print our standard size color "Carnations for the Incarnation" sheet (one sheet makes four packets).  Cut the sheet in four 4 1/4 x 5 1/2 in. quarters.  Place one of the quarter sheets long-side vertical, so that the writing is right side up as for reading.  Flip it sideways so the printing is face down.  Fold up from bottom in half (half the printing is now visible upside down).  Then fold right edges up about 1/2 in. and crease down toward the center--do the same with the left edges.  Then fold these right and left folded edges in again toward the center so they almost touch in the middle.  Crease all folds tightly.  The side facing down should now have a pocket about one-and-a-half inches wide--put a small pinch of seeds in the pocket (enough to rattle--at least 7).  Then with folded side facing up, fold the top down about 1/2 inch and crease the several layers tightly especially at corners.  Flip packet over side-to-side so smooth side is facing up, and staple near top centered about 1/4 inch down to secure flap.

If Clear Seed Packets Are Desired:

Clear mini bags that show the seeds can be purchased at craft stores or Internet sites.  If they are not the zip lock type, remember to fold each top corner in to create a point and then fold pointed top down and staple.  Transparent packets can also be made with tracing or wax paper by using the folding instructions above for regular printed sheet packets.  If using printed paper ribbons below, attach with the one staple used to close packet.  To attach paper ribbons with feast info to clear packs:  Download and print our standard size color "Carnations for the Incarnation" sheet--but print it double-sided.  Cut sheet in half lengthwise into two 4 1/4  x 11 strips.  Cut 4 1/4 strips wide enough to read three or more of the repeated lines of text--about 1/2 inch wide.  Fold strip in half at an angle to create a V-shape, and staple near top of packet (if using folded tracing/wax paper packets or non-zip-lock plastic, use the one staple to close packet and attach ribbon).  (If desired, you can cut white edges off each side of sheet after printing, or for a more finished look, you can cut ends of ribbon on a bias after cutting each strip).  [NOTE:  this same downloadable sheet can be printed double sided and used to attach longer ribbons to fresh cut carnations--click for instructions.] 

 

Carnations for the Home and Family Dinner Table:

 

The most common suggestion for using carnations on the Annunciation is to have fresh cut flowers for the dinner table.  Most everyone can buy a single carnation for the occasion, and take a few moments to say a special grace before the meal thanking God for the incomparable gift of His Incarnation and asking him to protect unborn children.  Pro-life organizations such as American Life League recommend making a carnation centerpiece for a more formal feast-day family dinner.  Women for Faith and Family also suggests using carnations in a household shrine -- explaining to children that they symbolize the Incarnation and allowing them to sprinkle the flowers with holy water.  EWTN’s web page on celebrating the Annunciation includes these and adds info on the meaning of the carnation as symbolic of the Incarnation, life, love, and the crucifixion.

 

For dinner parties, see the suggestions for a carnation-themed event/diner/party/tea below.

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Families & Organizations:  Host an Event, Dinner, Party, or Tea with a Carnation Theme

 

Invitations can be sent with a carnation theme including carnation confetti inside--see cards/stationery.  Please also see the favor suggestions under gifts, and the dessert ideas in the baked-goods/candy section.

Centerpiece Options:

 

Fresh Flowers: 

Use a vase of fresh cut carnations, and offer one to each of your guests to take home as a reminder of the feast day--you can also attach paper “Carnations for the Incarnation” ribbons (click for more info) by downloading our color printed sheets.  For a more formal table, order or create your own carnation florist-style arrangement. 

 

Floating or Fragranced Carnation Candles:

Floating carnation-shaped candles in a clear bowl (using cut crystal reflects the light) will create a lovely atmosphere, and they can also be given as gifts and favors.  Reasonably-priced floating carnation candles can be purchased in various colors, including peach, on-line.  Those who prefer the fragrance of carnation can choose a scented jar candle